Straight to the heart

If the Gospel is referred to as the “Good News”, I’m afraid the mark on that was missed here because not a lot of what was read from Matthew’s Gospel is good news to most of us. 

Last year we covered the Lukan account of this text, and while Luke focused more on the amputation or removal of what causes you to trip up or sin, the Matthean perspective draws us more into the heart of the matter.

This third discourse of the Sermon on the Mount is known as the antithesis periscope; thesis (in this case, selections from the Torah’s law, or Ten-Commandments) being a premise to maintained, and an antithesis being the contrast.  But instead of simply looking at these statements as contrast, I tend to view them as the deconstruction and reconstruction of the original in light of the promise that God is doing a new thing through Christ.

Jesus begins with the ancient command to not murder.  Easy enough, right?  Most of us tend to our day in day out activities of life without committing murder; pretty cut and dry.  Deconstructed and reconstructed, we go from not committing murder to not even harboring anger with someone else.  A new thing, indeed.

Jesus didn’t open this sentence with the intent to define murder as you and I get caught up doing in modern times.  This wasn’t framed as a suggestion or best-practiced scenario, either; this was such a big one, that Christ frames it to come before one of the more important pious acts of sacrifice, the giving of gifts and offerings.  Before that happens, before anything else happens, if you have malice in your heart, you are to go to that person and clear it up first, then come back and make your offering. 

So now instead of feeling really good about not murdering people, even when it’s hard, isn’t enough.  Now I have to deal with the anger, the hatred, the harbored feelings that I keep inside.  Feelings that, let’s be honest, sometimes are all we feel we have to keep us going, the only thing that protects us, and the only thing that motivates us.  Everyone here knows what I mean. 

It’s important to note here that anger itself isn’t the issue; on several occasions anger can be a positive motivator, and there are documented times when Jesus himself felt this common human emotion appropriately; however, it’s what we do with this emotion that defines us. 

Christ moves on to the next antithesis, adultery.  The law stated that you were not to commit adultery, and let’s face it – that’s not too difficult (for most, I’ll say).  Simply don’t do it, and check off that box.  But now we are being told that if (and the implication here is to the men) you look at a woman with lust in your heart toward her, you have already committed adultery with her.  The stakes here just got a lot steeper, don’t you think? 

Now I can’t hate anyone and I can’t lust after someone.  What else is Jesus going to take away from me? 

Well, of course the next thing would be everyone’s favorite to talk about:  divorce.  Divorce happens so routinely in our culture that we don’t give it any thought.  I know people who are in their fifth marriage; some of you here have been divorced and are remarried.  It’s hard for us to grapple with the thought of a man making his wife an adulteress if he divorces her for any reason other than infidelity, isn’t it?  What if he commits infidelity?  What if he abuses her?  To bring come contextualization to this, we need to see that the power of divorce was in the hands of the man here, being that he could simply announce a divorce in front of certain witnesses and the divorce would be granted.  No division of property, no battling it out, no any of the modern processes we have today.  So this statement could be viewed as a way of insulating women, but I think it goes even deeper than that, since it’s given some teeth to the men here when we are told that whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery himself. 

The last antithesis we receive pertains to swearing or entering into an oath.  This one, for me, stands out as the thing that isn’t like the others and doesn’t belong, but it really ties everything together when you think the metanarrative of The Sermon on the Mount.  It was said of the old ways that you were not to swear falsely (that is bear a false witness or lie).  This is a basic norm that we are all taught from an early age, but in this antithetical review, we are being told don’t swear at all.  But, why?  This one seems really harmless; we swear an oath when we testify in a court of law, swearing to tell the truth, and this is normal. 

I think what Christ is trying to drive home here is that the Good News cannot be approached legalistically, which is how they were conditioned to approach religion in both their time and the times ancient to them.  Whereas religion requires us to meet these rigid legal systems, this new thing, the Good News here, is we are freed to experience more of a spiritual discipleship as a follower of Christ instead of systems of legalistic religion.  And at the base of this relationship with Christ is our relationship with each other.

It all comes back to loving your neighbor as yourself.  It really does.  Every antithesis from Christ here is rooted in those four simple words.  Think about it:

If you truly, authentically love your neighbor as yourself, you will not want to harbor malice or hatred toward them.  We make peace with ourselves internally, and we should do the same with others.  This will cost us a lot; we will have to divorce ourselves of our pride, we will have to apologize if we have brought harm to that person, and we will likely have to put in work to repairing that relationship.  We will have to be open to others if they tell us we have harmed them, and instead of justifying what we did, authentically acknowledge the pain we have caused instead of mitigating our actions by excusing them away because someone is a little more tender than we are.  We don’t get to dictate how what we do makes others feel.  We aren’t urged to reconcile with one another in peace, we are instructed, required, and expected to do so; if we love others as our self, we should want to. 

The same goes for adultery and divorce (I’m going to bulk these together here since they are woven in the antithesis).  So much of this centers around the objectification of others, especially women.  Even now, in 2020, women have failed to be recognized as equal to men.  In the fall of this year we will celebrate the 100^th year of the nineteenth amendment to the Constitution – the amendment that granted women the right to vote.  Tennessee was the last state to ratify this amendment.  There are women alive today that were born when they didn’t have the right to participate in making decisions that would equally impact them.  Women have only had the ability to live into their call as pastors in the UMC for 52 years.  Only last year we as United Methodists passed an amendment to our constitution that states that not only men but also women are made in the image of God and are of equal and Holy worth.  The argument heard by so many was “this goes without saying”; no, it doesn’t, because it needs to be said.  Christ’s antithesis here leveled the playing field, so to speak, insulating women and guiding men to be present in a place of equality, not objectification, taking the commandment of adultery from a legalistic stronghold to a plane of existence where women, and all people, are more than a commodity.  This extends out past sexism and stands defiant in the face of racism, ageism, status, and any other type of prejudice, bias, bigotry, intolerance or narrow-mindedness that lures us into a comfortable place of superiority.  Again, here, we aren’t guided to a place of best practice, but of mandate as a follower of Jesus. 

If we are people who truly, with everything that we are, follow Jesus and walk in the difficult ways of a disciple, we are brought to a place of rendering oaths unnecessary, for our yes will be yes and our no will be no.  Without malice, and hatred, with a heart that truly loves all people and sees the Imago Dei (the Image of God) beaming out from everyone, we won’t need to be held by systems of rigid legal demand or punitive motivation, but moved by love in its most authentic, pure, and beautiful form.  Love that knows no boundaries, is patient, and kind.  Love that binds us together and binds us to Christ.